Hi! Sorry for this very weird ask!! But I'm really new to this and was hoping for some insight if that's fine. I'm a transgirl, who is very much into girls, and not really guys. I am currently single, because I feel very insecure about who I am.I don't expect anyone to want me with a dick between my legs, that's totally understandable. I know there are many sexal orientations, but to keep it simple, I wanted to know a lesbians view on being with a transgirl, after the operation and everything
Honestly that’s a very difficult question. research shows dating for trans people is very difficult. Only 2% or cis straight people would date a trans person and around 10% of gay males. but luckily favoring lesbians your chances are much higher at close to 30%. Pan and genderqueer have even higher odds statistically.
So it seems a third of lesbians are open to it. It’s clearly something some people feel comfortable with and others still unsure about it. I personally would date a trans girl. As for having a penis some would date you with some wouldn’t.
Now the thing that will make a big difference is how well you pass and transition. I’ve seen lots stunning femminine trans girls who I’d have no problem dating. However if your very large and Butch looking then I wouldn’t. That’s down to my personal taste im into fem girls so I wouldn’t be attracted to that look in a cis female either.
For me I love women to me it wouldn’t matter if you wasn’t born that way. Your a woman now.
Also have confidence and love yourself. Don’t think nobody will want you. Your a beautiful woman inside soon the outside will match.